“I have nothing to wear” means “the energy is off”
Have you ever said “I have nothing to wear”?
Well… were there actually zero options for an outfit?
When you say “I have nothing to wear” you don’t mean it literally, right?
I’m sure you can find a top and a bottom and cover yourself to go out and about.
What you are saying is “the energy is off” “the vibe is off” with the clothing options you have.
Even thinking about getting ready for the day, an event, a meet up etc can make you feel anxious because you know how it’s going to play out
You know that you’re going to start creating an outfit you don’t like, start all the mind drama, maybe even some negative self-talk and wear something you don’t love or even just give up and stay home instead.
It almost feels like you’re downgrading yourself, selling yourself short when creating an outfit because you want more for yourself. You desire to feel good about your choice of outfit. You want your clothes to match your beautiful energy. But the wardrobe you have isn't doing that.
When you haven’t mastered your energy and how that shows in your style through different colors, cuts, fabrics, details etc, you will try different aesthetics and buy things randomly but when you see all the pieces together in your closet you’re just looking at a whole pile of mess.
It’s also important to note that you are constantly evolving and changing so your wardrobe also needs to represent that change. If you were a college student but now work a 9-5, your identity then shifts and the clothes you have in your closet can feel like it’s representing the old version of you. We don’t want the past hunting us when that’s not who we are anymore.
So what can we do when the energy is off?
You first need to understand how to mirror your energy, who you are into your clothes. Because this is going to create a foundation. You need to understand what ticks and clicks. What makes your heart warm. What makes you feel turned on.
Once you know how to honor your energy so you don’t feel turned off by your wardrobe, now you get to support your vision.
The version of you 5 years ago and today will obviously be different. You might have a different approach to life, body, job, identities, values and personality. But that thing that lights you up, you will see consistently. Maybe you were always drawn to something timeless. Or something super offbeat and quirky. Maybe you never loved fashion and just valued comfort.
The things that remain consistent are your light, your essence.
And knowing how to translate and mirror that into the tangible using style is the secret to solving your “I have nothing to wear” problem from the root.
When you start to wear outfits that feel like “Oh this is me”, you get to honor every part of you. You get to represent yourself at a full capacity and that energy is magnetic.
With Magnetic Codes, I teach and show you how to translate your light into your style. How to mirror your energy into the tangible.
It is a process where you get to connect with self, while having fun seeing how everything comes into fruition.
Creating a fun and versatile wardrobe starts with knowing your ticks. Let’s find out together.
